90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days – Dempsey’s The Real Villain In Her Relationship With Statler

•  Dempsey’s relationship with Statler is falling apart due to their differences, including Statler’s clinginess and unusual sexual past.
•  One of the biggest challenges in their relationship is their disagreement about having children, but their breakup was temporarily avoided when Statler changed her mind.
•  Dempsey’s immaturity and impulsiveness, demonstrated by her temper tantrums and constantly changing her opinions, are causing strain in the relationship and could lead to its failure.

Dempsey Wilkinson from 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is also responsible for the problems in her relationship with Statler Riley. The 28-year-old reality star initially had a great connection with her 33-year-old girlfriend. Unfortunately, things began falling apart after she met Statler on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 6 and realized their differences. Dempsey discovered that Statler was too clingy and had an unusual sexual past. She didn’t like that she wanted to fast-track their relationship and move in with her to kickstart a life in the United Kingdom.

Dempsey and Statler faced many challenges after meeting each other. However, one of their biggest differences was when they discussed having a child together. Dempsey had always wanted to be a mother, while Statler hadn’t considered being a parent. Therefore, the two didn’t have a great conversation after Dempsey laid out her plans, and Statler simply said no. The couple were on the verge of a breakup when Statler claimed she could come around with the idea of having a child. This change of heart allowed the pair to reconcile, albeit temporarily.

Dempsey Throws A Temper Tantrum

Dempsey and Statler are incompatible, and according to a Reddit thread (via ShiplessOcean), many fans have recently realized that Dempsey is part of the problem. While Statler was at fault for not discussing babies before traveling to the UK, Dempsey was incredibly immature for almost breaking up with Statler over the difference. People often change their minds, and Statler needed some time and patience to come around to the idea of having a child. However, Dempsey’s wild reaction to Statler not sharing her dream was out of line. While the 90 Day Fiancé franchise star is nearly 30, her temper tantrums prove she can be the villain in her relationship.

Dempsey Asks Statler To Move In With Her

Like Statler, Dempsey has also often changed her mind in the spur of the moment. Previously, Dempsey was against moving in with Statler. She felt they were moving too fast and didn’t want to rush. However, Dempsey completely changed her mind before Statler returned to the United States. She told her she would live with her in her van. Dempsey doesn’t seem to have a firm idea about her future and often reacts on a whim. She’s unintentionally leading her relationship to fail by constantly changing her opinions.

Dempsey Doesn’t See Her Own Flaws

Statler is flawed, and she knows that. Therefore, she often shows a sign of maturity in stressful moments. In comparison, Dempsey doesn’t see her problems at all. Many fans recently pointed out how Dempsey’s codependent and continuing a band-aid relationship with Statler. She doesn’t want to lose her girlfriend but also doesn’t know if she has a future with her. Dempsey’s divisive nature is a big red flag that will one day cause her relationship to fail. The new 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star can only save it by acknowledging her flaws and working on herself.